Thursday, October 22, 2009

Painted It Brown

Sometimes you just need a simple yet drastic change. The time has come for me to not be blonde for a while. When I published my PAINT IT BLACK blog, I got a lot of responses that said, "Don't do it!" The responders offered many reasons. First, the locals would still see me as a gringa: my features, build and the rest of my being. Then I would open my mouth and they'd hear me speak...so it wouldn't help the discrimination factor. I agree with those folks. But, at the same time, I want to see if driving down the street is any different. When people see me at a distance in a local car or even walking down the street looking much like them doing the same things they are doing, perhaps I won't get the bad attitude. I guess I just want to see if there is any difference at all being brunette as opposed to being blonde, especially at my age.

I was warned the hair color would make me look older. The verdict is still out on that since I just colored the hair today. I should say Pablo colored it. He happens to like doing that stuff, and has knowledge and experience and does a good job. My Mom was a hairdresser. We did colors and changed them just for fun. It's not a big deal to change your hair color, if you don't like it you can always change it back. It is best to wait a month or so before doing so, and in my case I think next month I will go darker! I think the brown will give my hair more body. It may not look so thin and stringy. If Ijust use color and not bleach, my hair might actually get healthier. So I have my hair health reasons in addition to just wanting to blend in. The fact that I want to blend in is a totally new concept for me. I usually like being and looking a little different. I guess I'm just tired of attracting attention.

The color didn't turn out to be the dark dark brown I had in mind, but we started from a blonde blonde. First we did the de-coloration. We took all the color out of my hair,this is me in albino form.


Then there was this part. Sitting with the dark dye on for a long time. I am not REALLY as miserable as I look. I think I have dye all over my face.

Ta da! Here it is. The darkest we could get on the first try. Better luck next month.
So far I like it.

14 comments:

Merida Mikey said...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

I think it looks great! And, I'm sure you will get lots of comments, both pro and con, but if you like it - that's all that counts.

Way to go!

Anonymous said...

It looks good...like your haircut, too!

Daniela

norm said...

You have Latin blond now, with your skin tones the lighter brown looks natural.

Anonymous said...

Makes your eyes pop!

Lovely

Theresa in Mèrida said...

I like it! I admit that I saw it today before I read the post, it is a good colour on you. This post cracked me up! The during the dye job photo was hysterical, it didn't even look like you!

regards,
Theresa

Anonymous said...

I love your new look. If the locals don't like it, to bad for them.

Bob S

Linda Dorton said...

Thanks for the positive reinforcement, folks! It is kind of fun and different.

Islagringo said...

I was one who said don't do it. I didn't think I would like it one bit. But guess what? I FRICKIN LOVE IT! And it doesn't make you look older. Just the opposite. Go get 'em!

Linda Dorton said...

IslaGringo,
You were the only one who posted HERE that I shouldn't do it....I received several emails telling me the same thing...but I am a flippin Aries and do what I want, good idea or not! It is working out so far. People don't even comment. It is interesting.

Next time I go with the name brand hair color tho...this is fading already. I'll be blonde again, with dark roots, before you know it being in the sun and the pool. Oh well. Live and learn.

Julia said...

I think you look younger! I wonder if I should do it? I am six foot tall and I think I scare people who haven't seen tall women before.

So how have the locals reacted any change? Would be interested to hear about how the locals treat you now.

Julia

Anonymous said...

Julia, It makes a difference when I am driving. I don't get the stink eye because I don't attract attention. Otherwise, there hasn't been any difference. I feel a little more comfortable and I think that makes the difference.

Being blonde AND so much taller than the locals has got to be weird. With dark hair they might think you are a chilanga...not sure which is considered worse, gringa or chilanga.

Julia said...

Sorry I don't know the term Chilanga and couldn't find it in the dictionary. I take it that it isn't something good.

Julia

Linda Dorton said...

Julia,
Chilango/a is a derogatory term for a person from México City...

Julia said...

LOL... Until I open my mouth and murder the Spanish language :) The look on their faces would no doubt be priceless...

Julia